70,000 Assaults a Year

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doggie
doggie
WA
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26 Feb 2013 4:55pm
beerdead said...
Have to agree with your additions Mark.

Moby I agree that there has always been youthful rebelliousness, but the scale of it seems to be out of proportion to what us old blokes have witnessed through several generations.

There used to be moral codes of acceptable behaviours which don't seem to be observed today. Even fights were marquis of queensbury. Now they use chairs, palings, knives, bottles, or anything they can get hold of.

I have lost count of the amount of acquaintances who have been knocked out by large gangs of juveniles.

My young bloke was knocked out by some one he hasn't seen or met yet. He suffered a concussion. That's brain damage, and only time will tell if it was permanent. He has never raised a hand to anyone, and was open and friendly. He is now an angry surly prick that can't be told anything.

These events are far more life changing than are obvious.
I have lost count of the amount of patients I have nursed with brain damage or PTSD, anxiety etc due to assault.

I have a nonviolent philosophy, but I think it's time for an eye for an eye.

Worrier, I agree that the horse has bolted. It will take a hell of a lot of change to return to observation of moral codes, and it will need to be severe in order to work.

As for the rest of the world, there are certainly some violent places, but interestingly it seems to be the traditional cultures which enjoy the most respect and peace at a personal level, (despite some elements being at war with other cultures). (That should open a can of worms :)

The moral diaspora is complex, but antisocialism, narcisism, and psycopathy at personal levels seem to follow more populated and advanced societies.




And this has to stop as well -

http://news.ninemsn.com.au/national/2013/02/26/12/02/sri-lankan-arrested-over-uni-sex-assault
dmitri
dmitri
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26 Feb 2013 8:19pm
alcopop tax (does anyone remember it ?) clearly didn't work.
whoever came up with idea of this tax should apologies to the public and remove it.

oh, hang on... media is raving about alcohol-fuelled violence.
i guess more taxes coming our way.
Jack Mack
Jack Mack
NSW
343 posts
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26 Feb 2013 9:02pm
Close the pubs at midnight.
A bloke leaving a pub at mid night is a different person than the person leaving a pub at 3am.

Always keep in mind that being a young bloke is a very dangerous occupation.
beerdead
beerdead
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26 Feb 2013 9:44pm
Jack Mack said...
Close the pubs at midnight.
A bloke leaving a pub at mid night is a different person than the person leaving a pub at 3am.

Always keep in mind that being a young bloke is a very dangerous occupation.



Yep. It's a wonder I'm still here. :)
Mark _australia
Mark _australia
WA
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26 Feb 2013 6:54pm
Worrier - "we farrked the planet" - maybe that is part of the problem. But I mean the fact that 10 year olds are taught at school that the planet is going down the gurlger. The intent is good, but we are teaching kids from a young age that the planet is fkd
No wonder youth suicide is high and they write themselves off on grog all the time.


Only 20yrs ago when I was at skool it was about 20% of 16- 17 y/o kids who went to a party EVERY weekend and drank. Maybe another 20% got pissed monthly.
I'd be interested to see what it is now, maybe 50% plus for weekly? I see 14 y/o's carrying grog to parties. That is insane.

Baby Boomers - Gen X - GenY - GenBrainDamage.
Solves the problem of what we will call them.

pierrec45
pierrec45
NSW
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27 Feb 2013 1:58am
beerdead said...
Alcohol hasn't changed, but society has.

Very much agreed. The nature of present-days assaults is as worrying as the number.
There are way more callous and random acts now than ever (sucker punching as seen in Kings Cross and Melbourne, etc.)

As a youngster, I have seen quite a few altercations in pubs, but most were face-to-face, "let's take it outside" fights.
The result was no better - usually cops and injuries. But it was fair and 'mutually agreed'.

I don't remember seeing punching strangers from behind, nor glassing in the past. It's nearly all cowardly acts now, by cowards in gangs or from behind, or with concealed knives.

Things have changed.
Ados
Ados
WA
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27 Feb 2013 12:45am


The drinking issue will always be with us so long as we are happy for it to continue the way it has, and make no mistake, this drinking culture is a learned one, mostly from parents.
i'm pretty sure kids aren't skulling pints because of global warming.


actiomax
actiomax
NSW
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3 Mar 2013 10:10am
I've been king hit a couple of times for sure but I've had less fights out & about than what I ever had at school being bullyed . You as an individual will never change a society all you can do is prepare yourself for it . So learn to defend yourself. My kids don't get bullyed at school twins teach karate & have been black belts for two years younger boys are at purple belt . With there mothers in insistence I might add & we hope that as neither of us drink that they will be responsible drinking when & if they do but its the Agro drunks they have to watch out for& they should be prepared
evlPanda
evlPanda
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3 Mar 2013 12:09pm
Mark _australia said...
Beerdead - bloody spot on.

But also add

Insular society (don't know your neighbours) and more indoor personal entertainment like 30 TV channels, internet etc etc) and many kids are no longer subject to discipline from the friend's parents, neighbours, coaches, clubs etc.

Dumbing down of education standards (nobody fails anymore) so mediocre is just great

Lack of personal responsibility - told all about rights not responsibilities. That seems to be starting to (slowly) correct?

Big one - desinsitisation to violence and lack of empathy. For the same reason there is outcry over online bullying with people taking their own life, and /or normal people saying horrid things to others on FB etc ........ same reason we see more frequent vicious assaults. Lack of real personal interaction due to social media combined with glorified violence on movies is a massive issue. the, say, 15 - 21 y/o of today has bugger all empathy toward fellow man.

Soft magistrates. Zero punishment in children's court - after 3rd or 4th conviction they may get a suspended (pretend) jail term. MAYBE. What do they learn? Teachers can't touch me, dad doesn't care cos he left years ago, I am bigger and meaner than single mum so she can get fkd, now in court the Magistrate just told me I am naughty and I have to to go see a counsellor for 30mins a week. lol all the way home.


What NotWal said. Sharia law.

evlPanda
evlPanda
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3 Mar 2013 12:12pm
Mark _australia said...
tmurray said...
Public drunkenness wins you a night in the lockup.



It used to...... but in this enlightened society that law was repealed in the late 80's ish



I can assure you it was not repealed in the late 80's. I am absolutely, 100% sure.


hmm... let me be clear on that situation though. Friend told guys they had a cool car. Guys misheard as god knows what. Picked fight with us, as in throwing punches. We defend ourselves. We all get locked up.
evlPanda
evlPanda
NSW
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3 Mar 2013 12:13pm
beerdead said...
People have always gotten pissed but they didn't always try to cripple or kill others.

Alcohol hasn't changed, but society has.

My role in mental health clearly shows enormous differences in those elements of society with poor or absent parenting. And not necessarily low socio-economic areas.

Kids need mothers AND fathers who show them responsibility and accountability.

Unfortunately society is into it's 3rd generation of narcissistic selfishness, (post the social revolutions of the 60's and 70's) such as separating marital partnerships because it's "too hard".

For **** sake, it's not a joy ride. That's why marriage vows state "for better for worse". Work it out and stick it out for the kids sakes.

Have a look at the DSM4 TR regarding 'Personality Disorders', Axis II, Cluster B personalities and see how much modern personality you can identify in todays society.


I've read that "sticking it out", when there's a bad relationship, actually affects children negatively; they are better off without all the fighting.
saltiest1
saltiest1
NSW
2575 posts
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3 Mar 2013 1:09pm
the drinking culture in australia is pretty messed up. so are the many lives influenced by it, and the stuff that goes with it all.
somethings gotta change.
Mobydisc
Mobydisc
NSW
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3 Mar 2013 2:16pm
We watched the episode on 4 Corners about what happens when it comes to drinking alcohol and violence.

It was aweful seeing the results of violence, the young fellow who was so fit and full of life, now with multiple disabilities and dependent upon his family. The perpetrator should be made to pay financially and with their time. Sending them to gaol is not punishment in itself. The perpetrator goes to gaol for a couple of years and then is out, to spend the rest of his life as he sees fit. This is not fair. The victim has lifelong consequences of this stupid act of violence. So its only fair for the perpetrator to have lifelong consequences too.

Clearly alcohol in itself is not the problem. Its how people consume the alcohol and their behaviour after consuming it. Alcohol is used as an excuse to king hit someone and then stomp on their head. Its not an excuse and there is no excuse. Make people responsible for their action besides sending them to gaol for a few months or years.

Mark _australia
Mark _australia
WA
23685 posts
WA, 23685 posts
3 Mar 2013 2:22pm
evlPanda said...
Mark _australia said...
tmurray said...
Public drunkenness wins you a night in the lockup.



It used to...... but in this enlightened society that law was repealed in the late 80's ish



I can assure you it was not repealed in the late 80's. I am absolutely, 100% sure.


hmm... let me be clear on that situation though. Friend told guys they had a cool car. Guys misheard as god knows what. Picked fight with us, as in throwing punches. We defend ourselves. We all get locked up.


I am talking about other states (I think NSW still has it). Repealed in 70's and 80's all over Oz .... but as I am talking about WA well you are sorta correct as it was very early 1990.
Regardless - my point is that lefties end up making things more permissive, then we wonder why we have more assaults
Ados
Ados
WA
421 posts
WA, 421 posts
3 Mar 2013 9:08pm
Mark _australia said...
evlPanda said...
Mark _australia said...
tmurray said...
Public drunkenness wins you a night in the lockup.



It used to...... but in this enlightened society that law was repealed in the late 80's ish



I can assure you it was not repealed in the late 80's. I am absolutely, 100% sure.


hmm... let me be clear on that situation though. Friend told guys they had a cool car. Guys misheard as god knows what. Picked fight with us, as in throwing punches. We defend ourselves. We all get locked up.


I am talking about other states (I think NSW still has it). Repealed in 70's and 80's all over Oz .... but as I am talking about WA well you are sorta correct as it was very early 1990.
Regardless - my point is that lefties end up making things more permissive, then we wonder why we have more assaults


bloody lefties. ruining the world.
beerdead
beerdead
NSW
433 posts
NSW, 433 posts
4 Mar 2013 12:10am
evlPanda said...
beerdead said...
People have always gotten pissed but they didn't always try to cripple or kill others.

Alcohol hasn't changed, but society has.

My role in mental health clearly shows enormous differences in those elements of society with poor or absent parenting. And not necessarily low socio-economic areas.

Kids need mothers AND fathers who show them responsibility and accountability.

Unfortunately society is into it's 3rd generation of narcissistic selfishness, (post the social revolutions of the 60's and 70's) such as separating marital partnerships because it's "too hard".

For **** sake, it's not a joy ride. That's why marriage vows state "for better for worse". Work it out and stick it out for the kids sakes.

Have a look at the DSM4 TR regarding 'Personality Disorders', Axis II, Cluster B personalities and see how much modern personality you can identify in todays society.


I've read that "sticking it out", when there's a bad relationship, actually affects children negatively; they are better off without all the fighting.



Fighting does effect kids negatively. That's why they need to "work it out". Fighting is just unsuccessful narcissism.
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