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BulldogPup
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20 Oct 2011 8:01pm
elizabethb said...

UPDATE
ahhh well... I was taken up to the Office with Deputy and HOD (who hasnt helped) and told not to talk to the union again until I ask them first etc., and the reasons nothings been done etc.


Liz - you need to go STRAIGHT to your Union and detail every single moment of the behaviour - then also detail what that school has told you not do or say - you have rights and they're being denied to you for some reason not clear or other.
You could have a case for pressing criminal & legal charges if desired but they can advise you.
Flux
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20 Oct 2011 8:10pm
Following that line and seeking some justice through union based means ultimately means that you will most likely need to change schools, as they will endeavour to evict you once settled.
The question is this , are your convictions strong enough to warrant you actioning the offence via the union?, as if you are, then resigning your position will probably follow eventually.I would think.
Thats the harsh reality usually in these cases.
ginger pom
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20 Oct 2011 11:41pm
elizabethb said...

ginger pom - The girls and especially the boys in the class couldn't believe it and cannot believe it. None of them support him or ever did and are actually relieved he isn't in the classroom atm.


Shouldn't your thread be better titled

"The behaviour of A SINGLE KID and several gutless ADULTS in management"

firiebob
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20 Oct 2011 8:52pm
Liz never have another meeting without a witness and think about a voice recorder
landyacht
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20 Oct 2011 9:06pm
Hang in there EB.If the kids cant stand it either, they will be talking to their parents so people in the bigger school community will be aware of your predicament.
Get over this little life hurdle and and you'll be a tougher,better teacher .
your screaming HOD sounds like there are other people offloading their issues downhill and its coming back to bite them
elizabethb
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21 Oct 2011 8:32am
firiebob said...

Liz never have another meeting without a witness and think about a voice recorder


I thought of that last night and have one now. [}:)]

Flux - Changing schools doesn't bother me; imho it cannot get much worse... I'm already permanent so compassionate transfer due to management is an option.
CMC
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21 Oct 2011 9:18am
Voice recorder in any contentious situation is a great idea.

My wife was wrongfully implemented in a workplace issue, I attended the interview and at the outset said that I would be recording the interview for our records. I then put the digital recorder in the middle of the table in full view.

I asked some tricky questions of them of how they came to the conclusions and exposed some obvious problems with their facts.

The tape recorder ensured they answered fully as they knew they were on record.

She was absolved completely with a full written apology and a pay rise.
K Dog
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21 Oct 2011 10:40am
elizabethb said...

firiebob said...

Liz never have another meeting without a witness and think about a voice recorder


I thought of that last night and have one now. [}:)]

Flux - Changing schools doesn't bother me; imho it cannot get much worse... I'm already permanent so compassionate transfer due to management is an option.


Voice recordings etc..... if this isn't an example of a rotten system what is.... teachers shouldn't need to be in a paranoid litigious (spelling soz) situation constantly on the borders of legal disputes just to teach rotten kids birthed by rotten parents....

How much worse can society get? I think this is the microcosmal example of society as a whole.....

BulldogPup
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21 Oct 2011 7:50am
Just on the Voice recorder subject - it is very important that you inform those present at any interview that you are recording conversations - otherwise it can be supressed by courts.
.... one other thing Liz, , do not ever be in a situation alone EVER with this little problem child , that could be disastrous for you & your working career.
getfunky
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21 Oct 2011 11:43am
Ms B you have evry right to contact your union and discuss unsuitable treatment etc.

Take a representative or another staff member with you to the next meeting.

DO NOT record anything without informing theparticipants you will do so. Even if only for your own records it is illegal to record people without their knowledge (if not in a public space - and an office is not a public space).

If they find out you have recorded anything - even if no-one has even heard it - they have you 100% on toast.

Also - might be wise to go quiet on SB. With the way the dopey principal etc are handling this they may be able to slap you for public airing of the problem (even though you have been wise not to mention twit student's name or school).

Tread carefully but carry a BIG stick. Next time the say you cannot contact your union make damn sure it is witnessed.

Good luck.
elizabethb
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21 Oct 2011 3:12pm
bulldogpup - He has now been removed from my class into the office and since this yesterday he hasn't come near my class or myself. Thanks for the info re:recordings


getfunky - Thanks for the recording info; I thought you could as long as one party knew about it and that one party would be myself and our staff!?

This is going to be a big battle now; have 5 maybe 6 staff members supporting this and other problems with HOD and 3 who don't care what happens. Will deal with this next week as a whole group.

Will let it rest for now but I won't be able to stay in this school with the management, HOD and administration the way it is.
japie
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21 Oct 2011 5:56pm
Elizabeth, my heart goes out to you. My daughters best friend and housemate has been teaching for four years in the government system and the dreams she built lie shattered.

She went to the same private school as my daughter, budget catholic with lay teachers, and really had no idea what the mosh pit was like.

Sounds like you may have upset the hierarchy in which case you might have to find some mates and start up your own school where education is the priority and you are not bound by regulations that are absurd. It is not such a dumb idea really. If you limited your class sizes to ten and charged $10k a year you would be able to rent pemises and collect a decent wage. There are penty of small schools shut down in NSW and more than enough dissillusioned parents.

The government system is by and large an absolute mess. This can only have been achieved deliberately. As the Doctor says, the protocols of Zion make very interesting reading.

I cannot help comparing todays system to the one I went through in South Africa. I went to Queens College, Tony Grieg, in primary school. Caning was administered but not abused and it kept the wildest manageable. School started at 7.20 am and went through to 1.30, hour for lunch then compulsory sport until 4.30 run by teachers who were also rostered on on saturdays to referee or umpire.

I then went to Kingswood College which is quite up market. We had prefect supervised early morning prep 6.30 to 7.15, breakfast, chapel 8-8.15, Classes through till 3.20, compulsory sport till 5 with Wednesday arvo off, then supervised prep from 6.15 until 9.30.

To cap it all we had four periods on a Saturday morning in winter and three in summer.

And if you try and tell the young folks that today they won; believe you but the point I am making is that teachers did pretty big hours.

I know that if I had my time over I would home school my kids. Look at what it achieved for Jessica Watson.
BulldogPup
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21 Oct 2011 3:54pm
Look it may be the best thing to go - the change of scenery will do a world of good , fresh start almost.
Hate to see "them" hunt you down for trivial paybacks and the like - you seem genuine enough to care about your job be such as waste is all , jmo.
Keep the chin up & stay alert.
pierrec45
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22 Oct 2011 12:04am
So Miss Elizabeth,

is it "behaviour of kids today", or "kids' behaviour today", or "today's kids' behaviour" ?

Just askin' (and trying to inveigle you away from a depressing topic :( )
dangles01
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22 Oct 2011 10:41am
Earlier comment about home schooling mmmmm I have reservations.

As radical and unpredictable todays schools can be restricting the boundarioes of freinds & life experinces will likely restrict development of the home schooled kid.

I met a guy earlier this yeat who believes it took him years to 'teach' himself social skills when he first started working after being home schooled. In his words he just didnt get what was acceptable and what was not. He also found it difficult to deal with challenging situations and difficult people, he never had to deal with a class d*ckhead before.

eg: he asked me what was involved with kids sport. "he had heard that it is good for kids to do this"???? WTF as he didnt have school friendships he didnt have a natural extension into sport and never played team sports.

Always two sides to a story.
elizabethb
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24 Oct 2011 6:28pm
Consequences:

- 9 lessons in the "office"
- Change of class finally today! Exactly two weeks later.


No formal acknowledgement of the behaviour or apology etc.

Although, I've now received confirmation to begin my Masters next year! [}:)] A random tangent and possible way out in the future...
Chris6791
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24 Oct 2011 4:50pm
getfunky said...

DO NOT record anything without informing theparticipants you will do so. Even if only for your own records it is illegal to record people without their knowledge (if not in a public space - and an office is not a public space).

Also - might be wise to go quiet on SB. With the way the dopey principal etc are handling this they may be able to slap you for public airing of the problem (even though you have been wise not to mention twit student's name or school).



Good advice GF, it would definitely be a breach of the Surveillance Devices Act (or equivalent) in Qld, also Elizabeth assuming EQ has a Social Networking Policy you are probably breaching that by getting this off your chest in here. Assuming your profile details are correct there is easily enough there for someone within EQ to identify you and that just gives them another box of ammo to use when they want.

I've been roasted by my employer (justified in hindsight) for posting something I thought was quite humourous on FB and it's not pleasant process to go through.
Chris6791
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24 Oct 2011 4:52pm
... but fingers crossed it all works out for you.
bakesy
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24 Oct 2011 5:26pm
are you an English teacher Elizabeth? If so we have a job going at Mandurah Catholic College (check website for details), great school, awesome part of the world and strong leadership.
elizabethb
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24 Oct 2011 7:54pm
bakesy said...

are you an English teacher Elizabeth? If so we have a job going at Mandurah Catholic College (check website for details), great school, awesome part of the world and strong leadership.


Thanks Bakesy - Maths and I'm in Qld. Unfortunately total opposites lol. Sounds like a dream!
laceys lane
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24 Oct 2011 8:08pm
i'll be blunt, ever since the do gooders took control, things have been edging towards the state we are in now with a reasonable percentage of almost lawless youth running amok. 'media coverage indicates the police and the system are at a lost what to do. the very same media then babble on about kids rights and the devastating harm they will suffer from discipline. you didn't have to be a rocket scientist to see what the future held. talk about conspiracies

WAKE UP AUSTRALIA


Mobydisc
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24 Oct 2011 9:35pm
The situation is it is impossible to expel a student from a public school on the basis of breaches of discipline. It is the right of every child to attend school in Australia. However the responsibility to learn at school is ignored by some children.


Students can publish a hit list of teachers and students they plan to kill and they still has the right to attend the school where they plan to kill. A principal can expel a student on the basis of acts of intimidation and threats against teachers and the education bureaucracy will overturn that decision and let the student back into the school.

The kid who is the subject of this thread should have been asked why he should stay in school. If he couldn't give a decent answer then ask him to leave.

Good luck with the masters. Plenty of material in a rough school to write a thesis or two.







BlueStorm
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24 Oct 2011 7:16pm
Gizmo said...

Next time get a pic of it... I'm sure he will let you if he is that brazen. Blow up the pic and let the class pin the tail on the donkey or display it via the data projector and let the whole class have a look as well.
Embarrass the hell out of him




nah man don't take a pic, knowing trailer trash parents these days they'll probs sue or some bs like that. Also risk of child porn.

I'm 17 and have just graduated from school and i honestly believe this whole "no bullying" thing has destroyed my generation. I agree that there should not be any of that life threatening fully getting bashed up torturing kids 24/7 type of bullying. However because there is so f*****g character building kids become arrogant, obnoxious little ****s. THEY KNOW they can get away with anything they want because no one can touch them, it is ridiculous. Normally even a decade before my time if you were a brat or didn't show respect, i can imagine someone most likely a fellow student would beat the **** out of you and teach you a lesson. Not anymore, because if someone checked a kid and put him in his place they would suffer the worst consequences. This even applies for verbally telling someone to shut up. We just can't treat kids like they are precious little angles. They're not. Kids are evil little beings, with exceptions, who need adults to teach them how to behave. Not protect them from the real world.
laceys lane
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24 Oct 2011 9:21pm
BlueStorm said...

Gizmo said...

Next time get a pic of it... I'm sure he will let you if he is that brazen. Blow up the pic and let the class pin the tail on the donkey or display it via the data projector and let the whole class have a look as well.
Embarrass the hell out of him




nah man don't take a pic, knowing trailer trash parents these days they'll probs sue or some bs like that. Also risk of child porn.

I'm 17 and have just graduated from school and i honestly believe this whole "no bullying" thing has destroyed my generation. I agree that there should not be any of that life threatening fully getting bashed up torturing kids 24/7 type of bullying. However because, and i remember even in primary school, there is so f*****g character building kids become arrogant, obnoxious little ****s. THEY KNOW they can get away with anything they want because no one can touch them, it is ridiculous. Normally even a decade before my time if you were a brat or didn't show respect, i can imagine someone most likely a fellow student would beat the **** out of you and teach you a lesson. Not anymore. Now a kid can be a little **** and just be told to "behave better" but have no serious reprocussions handed to them. This may be a really niave opinion from me, given that i have never experienced it, but i feel that the cane or some just physical punishment should be used in moderation. None of this "no bullying" crap thats just letting kids get away with anything


fair point to consider
BlueStorm
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24 Oct 2011 7:24pm
I kinda edited out the whole cane ( kane?) thing, thought i was being a little naive
Spocktek
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24 Oct 2011 9:15pm
What about the kid that mooned the queen, little ****, yes, funny, yes yes!
Theres a line between harmless fun and 'hanging out with the wrong crowd.'
Maybe you should lighten up?
roe
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25 Oct 2011 2:47pm
Kids need boundaries set and strong discipline coming from the parents
at an early age, by the time they reach teens and aren't well disciplined it is
probably too late...

School cant really do much there ...

There isn't much you can do if the parents don't care or don't discipline them.

These days most parents take the easy way out ..let them watch TV...
reward them for everything they do even when they failed..

These cop out actually weaken the kids and turn them into undisciplined children
and spoil them rotten and they cant handle failure...
Ados
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25 Oct 2011 5:20pm
laceys lane said...

BlueStorm said...

Gizmo said...

Next time get a pic of it... I'm sure he will let you if he is that brazen. Blow up the pic and let the class pin the tail on the donkey or display it via the data projector and let the whole class have a look as well.
Embarrass the hell out of him




nah man don't take a pic, knowing trailer trash parents these days they'll probs sue or some bs like that. Also risk of child porn.

I'm 17 and have just graduated from school and i honestly believe this whole "no bullying" thing has destroyed my generation. I agree that there should not be any of that life threatening fully getting bashed up torturing kids 24/7 type of bullying. However because, and i remember even in primary school, there is so f*****g character building kids become arrogant, obnoxious little ****s. THEY KNOW they can get away with anything they want because no one can touch them, it is ridiculous. Normally even a decade before my time if you were a brat or didn't show respect, i can imagine someone most likely a fellow student would beat the **** out of you and teach you a lesson. Not anymore. Now a kid can be a little **** and just be told to "behave better" but have no serious reprocussions handed to them. This may be a really niave opinion from me, given that i have never experienced it, but i feel that the cane or some just physical punishment should be used in moderation. None of this "no bullying" crap thats just letting kids get away with anything


fair point to consider


One day when you have kids, you might reconsider the 'non' bullying thing.
Violence teaches violence, not discipline.
laceys lane
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25 Oct 2011 7:48pm
Ados said...

laceys lane said...

BlueStorm said...

Gizmo said...

Next time get a pic of it... I'm sure he will let you if he is that brazen. Blow up the pic and let the class pin the tail on the donkey or display it via the data projector and let the whole class have a look as well.
Embarrass the hell out of him




nah man don't take a pic, knowing trailer trash parents these days they'll probs sue or some bs like that. Also risk of child porn.

I'm 17 and have just graduated from school and i honestly believe this whole "no bullying" thing has destroyed my generation. I agree that there should not be any of that life threatening fully getting bashed up torturing kids 24/7 type of bullying. However because, and i remember even in primary school, there is so f*****g character building kids become arrogant, obnoxious little ****s. THEY KNOW they can get away with anything they want because no one can touch them, it is ridiculous. Normally even a decade before my time if you were a brat or didn't show respect, i can imagine someone most likely a fellow student would beat the **** out of you and teach you a lesson. Not anymore. Now a kid can be a little **** and just be told to "behave better" but have no serious reprocussions handed to them. This may be a really niave opinion from me, given that i have never experienced it, but i feel that the cane or some just physical punishment should be used in moderation. None of this "no bullying" crap thats just letting kids get away with anything


fair point to consider


One day when you have kids, you might reconsider the 'non' bullying thing.
Violence teaches violence, not discipline.



whoa, a fair point to consider. didn't say it's my opinion
elizabethb
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25 Oct 2011 9:53pm
Spocktek said...

What about the kid that mooned the queen, little ****, yes, funny, yes yes!
Theres a line between harmless fun and 'hanging out with the wrong crowd.'
Maybe you should lighten up?


He was CHARGED with being a public nusance and indecent exposure and is due to appear in Brisbane Magistrates Court on Friday.

!!!! Too bad I'm not the Queen hey....

www.abc.net.au/news/2011-10-24/cheeky-stunt/3598220
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