ikw777 said...
I'd like to live in a world where women aren't cynically used to further the profile of events and/or goods and services by being employed to do dumb stuff like kissing some sportsman at an awards ceremony.
I'd also like to live in a world where men realise that touching an woman in sexually provocative manner outside some sort of understanding between the two of them is, actually, not OK.
I'd love more people to realise that the reason he's touching her like that is due to nothing other than him being encouraged by a lifetime's internalisation of representations of women as male playthings with no agency of their own.
He pinched her because in his mind he's having a naughty bit of fun, like a cheeky schoolkid. The fact that she might not like never occurred to him. Whatever the recipient of the pinch would have wanted or not wanted doesn't matter because he did not care and that's the problem.
That (and dafrog's response) are true.
BUT flip side - women know men are easily amused and like them in different ways to how women like men. They take advantage of it. That is: maybe how the world works is wrong but the grid girls / presentation awards girls / models aren't complaining.
Plenty of women use sexuality and attractiveness to their advantage. If the lady is of average intelligence or better, and thus is capable of making her own decision to dress hot and be a grid girl, knowing that due to her looks a guy will slap her on the bum or chat her up, then who are we to condemn her?
This is not prostitution or hardcore porn videos that she could slide into due to debt or drug use, nor the boiling the frog anology - this is a chick using her attractiveness to make money being photo'd next to the right logo's or something. Same as the cyclist uses his athleticism to make money.
In doing so she accepts that she will be cracked onto and maybe slapped on the bum. Most, I suggest, like the attention as long as it is just a casual flirt or slap on the bum. At worst they dislike the guy and laugh it off and call him a bit creepy ..... yet are bouyed by it somewhat as such activity creates more fame for them and thus more work.
I am not saying it is right - but if they accept it who are we to tell them it is wrong? Typical of the politically correct brigade - the "victim" does not care but the "more enlightened" - usually a lefty with a degree - tells us all how bad it all is.
Nowadays that lefty's criticism is predicted so the "offender" apologises in a speech written for them so they don't lose a billion dollar contract. Next week it happens again. How ridiculous.
Bit like banning Xmas at schools so as to not offend the Muslims - but no Muslims have complained. Madness.
So who are the dumb ones? I say the men who are influenced but the pretty girl..... not the girls for doing it. (I admit I am very dumb lol)
Who are the
really truly dumb ones? The ones who complain about it not being right when the "victim" doesn't care. Their high and mighty "i know what is best for you and you should be offended" is almost as distasteful as the use of sex to sell.