To help or not to help?

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INfiniDIE
INfiniDIE
WA
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17 Nov 2010 1:02am
Was down at Woodies for the first time just to see what all the fuss was about and as a guy was coming past he got in a sticky situation with his kite inverting and constantly heading downwind at '12, I promptly gave him a hand with a land so he could sort himself out and relaunch, but it could have gone wrong easily...

So what I wanted to know was the general consensus, if you see someone in a bad situation or looks like they could use help or doing something stupid do you speak up or shut up? I don't want to get in anyone's way or annoy them when I'm out kiting, but I have a habit of doing it on here easily enough...
destine
destine
NSW
157 posts
NSW, 157 posts
17 Nov 2010 4:20am
Personally i welcome anyone that wants to help. It makes the sport safer and can prevent stuff from happening that might be harmful to the rider and the sport itself. The more people that get hurt the more the sport may be restricted.

Good on you for being like that!!
Morg
Morg
QLD
129 posts
QLD, 129 posts
17 Nov 2010 7:40am
I work on the same principal that I use when driving/camping up the beach. If someone is genuinely in a situation that was caused by inexperience or equipment failure etc I'll stop and help. But if its the same hooning wanker that was doing doughnuts on the sand in front of my camp site half an hour earlier then all he gets from me is a wave as I drive by.

(obviously if death is on the way I lend a hand though)
Gorgo
Gorgo
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17 Nov 2010 10:11am
You are obliged to help anybody who needs it as long as you don't put yourself at risk. It's a rule. (I had a quick look at your profile and from the list of sports you have I'm surprised you have to ask the question.)

You're not obliged to be an unpaid instructor, but you should step in if a quick comment from you can save people from grief.
bjw
bjw
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bjw bjw
QLD, 3691 posts
17 Nov 2010 10:29am
Help them if they need it - no question

But Kiters have a bad habit of acting like School Teachers afterwards.

Don't spank them if theyve been bad- leave that to their girlfriends.

Bully
Bully
WA
170 posts
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17 Nov 2010 11:10am
i find a quick ride past with a thums up (you ok?) signal works, if they are ok they'll thumbs up back, if they are in the shyte and really need help you can bet they'll let you know about it and request help. doesnt take much to keep an eye out really, and you know it'll come back round when you least expect it, but most need it.
Gorgo
Gorgo
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17 Nov 2010 3:46pm
There is nothing worse than needing some help and having all these clowns riding around with their heads wedged up their clackers.

I have recovered dozens of boards over the years and several kites. The one time I lost contact with my board and guys would ride right past me carefully looking in the other direction. Grrrrrrr!
bingles
bingles
WA
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17 Nov 2010 12:53pm
Martime law - not sure if it actually appiles, states you must help a vessel in distress. Dont quote me pls
Morg
Morg
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17 Nov 2010 3:44pm
I'm all for helping anyone in trouble but what i hate is when the local kook/agro/know it all kiter decides to hassel everyone, break all the local rules and generaly operate in a dangerous manner only to come unstuck (which these kooks all do eventually) then plead with all his victims for assistance.
juicerider
juicerider
WA
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17 Nov 2010 2:05pm
bingles said...

Martime law - not sure if it actually appiles, states you must help a vessel in distress. Dont quote me pls


your right, but its also as long as it does not endanger you.
bingles
bingles
WA
363 posts
WA, 363 posts
17 Nov 2010 2:12pm
Im already a danger to myself
the gibbo
the gibbo
WA
776 posts
WA, 776 posts
17 Nov 2010 2:56pm
Being on the recieving end of help the other day at woodies
Cheers very much to the french bloke who rides a Wainaman

I didnt really need help, not being far of shore,leading edge exploded, but this bloke grabbed my board and dragged me in, just made the whole self rescue thing less of a pain

Suppose it just an ability thing if your able, do it, speak up
Helping others in distress should be a natural instinct i would have thought or is it easier to pretend its not happening
INfiniDIE
INfiniDIE
WA
478 posts
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17 Nov 2010 7:38pm
Gorgo said...

You are obliged to help anybody who needs it as long as you don't put yourself at risk. It's a rule. (I had a quick look at your profile and from the list of sports you have I'm surprised you have to ask the question.)

You're not obliged to be an unpaid instructor, but you should step in if a quick comment from you can save people from grief.


I asked because this forum (despite all it's ups and downs) does have a large knowledge base and you can get all sides of the story. And in many of those sports there are different rules for safety (ie BASE jumping- Help anyway you can, Skydiving- Help only if you can do it safely, Skateboarding-Most of the times you can't help, BMX- help as long as they won't turn around and stab you in the neck...)
sleek1
sleek1
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17 Nov 2010 10:54pm
you did the right thing mate. But you are not obliged to do anything, it is when you volunteer to help is when you are commited.Because you have proven that you are qualified to help.

I have exp non help before by one of the sponsers of this forum.because i decided to ride my own kite instead of his on his Airrush travel around Australia. Port fairy prob around 04.Lucky one of the locals stepped in. I was a blow in aswell. Gotta love country dudes. But i did learn from the exp. To help anyone out who is kiting.No matter how small the petty shiz is.
WhooshkA
WhooshkA
WA
46 posts
WA, 46 posts
17 Nov 2010 9:04pm
A 'Duty of Care', 'Duty to Rescue', 'Good Samaritan' considerations or laws may or may not apply depending on your overall relationship with those in need and where you are. Your responsibility can vary between states and depending on your role: did you contribute to the situation or are you a friend, teacher, doctor etc. I generally understand that you have no responsibility to help if you are a stranger and did not cause the accident or will further endanger yourself or others, but don't take my word :p

Then again, think of what an authority might impose if someone was hurt and abandoned at your favorite spot, and you never know when you might need help too one day.

bolgo
bolgo
WA
912 posts
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17 Nov 2010 9:25pm
back in the old days , the dawn of kiting maybe 6-8 yrs ago

it was more of a community thing

everyone looked out for each other, if a kite went down or some one in trouble there was no question of helping if you could

used to be more regular with kites back then tending to overfly and drop out of the sky but still rescue duties were a requirement, boards and kites towed back no questions

probably more to do now with the numbers and less of a kiter brotherhood.......

still i agree , you are obliged to help if there is a serious situation or a potential for one
poor relative
poor relative
WA
9106 posts
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17 Nov 2010 10:09pm
I'll always help so long as i am not going to end up in poop.
INfiniDIE
INfiniDIE
WA
478 posts
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17 Nov 2010 10:40pm
Gorgo said...

You are obliged to help anybody who needs it as long as you don't put yourself at risk. It's a rule. (I had a quick look at your profile and from the list of sports you have I'm surprised you have to ask the question.)

You're not obliged to be an unpaid instructor, but you should step in if a quick comment from you can save people from grief.


I asked because this forum (despite all it's ups and downs) does have a large knowledge base and you can get all sides of the story.
wishy
wishy
WA
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17 Nov 2010 11:12pm
What if you're 10km offshore, do you help and risk getting killed also, or do you fang in and get the coastguard
AKSonline
AKSonline
WA
925 posts
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17 Nov 2010 11:42pm
I dunno about where you all kite, but at Pinnas, everyone still helps everyone else. It is common place to see boards and kites being brought back to the beach, and people too.

I can't imagine not helping some one if I am in a position to help. The fact that I have a choice has never occurred to me.

I learned to kite in the old days and a sense of kinship was the primary bond between us all and maybe it seems that is becoming lost in this day of mass appeal in our sport.

I also firmly believe in Karma, and have seen Karma bite wrong doers on the arse, big time. "What goes around ....."

Try helping someone for no other reason than it may make someone elses day!

DM
SlicerDicer
SlicerDicer
179 posts
179 posts
18 Nov 2010 6:33am
I have torn open my foot unknown amounts of time running to help people, going out in water to help them whatever it takes. I only could hope somebody would do the same for me.

Hell sometimes I go down to the beach to not even kite just see whats going on and help people :) One day I was the only person left at the beach at the end of the day nobody to catch the last guys kite but me
harry potter
harry potter
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2777 posts
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18 Nov 2010 4:46pm
There is only one answer .............YES you should help. but.......

if the situation is dangerous you need to weigh up the risk and make your decision,

your decision should not be based on the persons attitude or demeanor or what they may have done in the past but based solely on the risk to your own safety and how far you are willing to go.
INfiniDIE
INfiniDIE
WA
478 posts
WA, 478 posts
18 Nov 2010 10:34pm
Well it's good to know I'm thinking the right thing then, I have tried helping people in other sports and they've turned around and barked at me for touching their boards (Hero point is a shining example). But down at woodies I did see another fellow bringing a board from wayyyyy upwind to another guy bodydragging and since I didn't get a chance to go out in the water that day it did make my day to help him land and wait for him to sort his kite out for a relaunch. ^_^
Paul1
Paul1
QLD
1011 posts
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19 Nov 2010 5:47pm
Always help a person in trouble, if it doesn't come naturally to you then you need help.......
ApatheticEnd
ApatheticEnd
WA
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20 Nov 2010 5:46am
I've never seen somone in stife without a bunch of people rushing in to help. I don't know what things were like in the good old days but I've been super impressed in the last 9 or 10 months i've been kiting, with people's willingness to help each other out. I've not met any real knobs yet. Everyone i've landed/helped me land gets/gives a thanks and handshake. Everyone i've said hi to at the end of a session or out on the water has been pleasent and just shares the stoke.

I reckon even if I run into 5 knobs this summer that can't outweigh the dozens of cool people I've met so far. I think if you aren't being an outright dick kiters are pretty cool to each other by and large. I'd imagine it's a good thing to introduce yourself to as many people down the beach as possible and help somone out if they need it. You'll never know when someone might save you a long swim or more.
NSW, 4382 posts
20 Nov 2010 9:09am
Personally, do for others what you would want them to do for you.
theDoctor
theDoctor
NSW
5786 posts
NSW, 5786 posts
20 Nov 2010 12:43pm


^^^^ no way am I givin someone else a headjob
Dezzi
Dezzi
WA
25 posts
WA, 25 posts
20 Nov 2010 11:09am
I got in trouble at woodies a few days ago, ended up far out and the currents were really strong making it impossible to swim back. I was so lucky someone helped me, and another person got out on his kayak to get my kite. I dont even want to think about what could have happened if nobody gave me a hand. Always look out for each other - how would you feel if you ignored helping someone and then read on the news that person got lost at sea?

You can also keep the phone number to sea rescue / water police on your mobile. The number to water police is 9442 8600.
stabber
stabber
NSW
1114 posts
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20 Nov 2010 5:02pm
We might talk shizen on this forum, but we are generally willing to be helpfull when needed.

I love you guys!

<<< I'm talking about those two puppies beside me
little o
little o
WA
405 posts
WA, 405 posts
20 Nov 2010 2:25pm
a good tip which I learnt from our local 13yr old grom. when rescuing a board if it's too big for you to carry ride their board and carry yours.

I used it the other day when someones kite exploded and it was great.

I agree with Daz i've lost many boards to the sea only to have a fellow kiter search the water for an hr to get it. Pinnaz rocks
Spacemonkey!
Spacemonkey!
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20 Nov 2010 9:28pm
theDoctor said...



^^^^ no way am I givin someone else a headjob


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