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Originally posted by Missy
Us kite chicks are a special bred! And should be showered with gifts and praise... even if that jump I did was 2 feet high![]()
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Originally posted by silviu
Hey Elizabethb
You girls (for some reason I dont quite like the word ch...), have all my admiration and support.
And Missy, if the jump was only 2ft, next one may be higher, so keep trying "girl". That's the spirit!!!
And about the colour, one of my kite is... RED. So what, red kites fly FAST, and give some colour to the sport!!
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Originally posted by gruezi
1. Being a "boy scout"...this is a gear intensive sport. It takes a certain type of brain, I call it the "boy scout brain." A brain that likes to know how and why things work.
Ok I feel like I am in the 1950's. I am interested in how things work, and inferring that women don't have the brain for understanding how things work results in more girls stranded on the side of road wondering if a clutch might in fact be more than an entertaining dance move. Also, what about all those men with techie brains who hate going outside - without these people the internet may never have ever happened, not to mention playstation?
2. Going to beaches that are crowded with middle aged men boy scouts reliving their childhood....and many of whom are ADD.
Yes but we can live with it.
3. Not having any "fun" for a while...spending countless hours walking, being tired, waiting for the right wind, and overall really not being sure of what you are doing. Having to ask for help, etc. etc.
Hello? We are the ones who end up getting pregnant and having the babies - you think waiting ages for wind is bad, those babies take 9 months to cook.
4. Time & Money. Regardless of what people think, this sport requires time and committment before you are happening.
We could have more money if only we could get those high paying technological jobs that our silly womens' brains preclude us from. Bugger.
I believe it is the rare exception where women really can learn from men as this is still a male dominated sport.
I don't really see this as such an issue - we learnt how to do other things from men, like voting and bombing stuff (Ms. Condi Rice)and seem to have got the hang of it.
Finally, my daughter is a kiter, but when asked why she does it...has said "because my dad keeps buying me all this gear." Even though not at all addicted, she loves it after a good kite and is becoming a little addicted. However, to get her to the beach is tricky because of even more hurdles:
1. Boys
2. Social life
3. School work
4. Earning money
5. I'de rather be somewhere else, rather than wait around for the wind.
You've got to have your priorities and I'm afraid there are more male "boy scouts" out there than female ones.
Women will take to this sport big time soon.......because today's modern woman want's to become a boy scout.
Not to labour the point but women can do things that were traditionally thought of as men's pursuits without rendering themselves 'less of a woman'. We can do these things on our own terms. When I left school I worked as a mechanic (mostly diesel stuff) for a couple of years, and it drove me crazy that people expected me to be a beer swilling lesbian just because I wore overalls to work. People very quickly get co-opted into stereotypes.
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1) boyfriend has tried to teach them, and not taken proper precautions, girl gets lofted and freaked out. She may want to try again, but really are scared now (so yes fear does have an impact, after a scare)
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Originally posted by tWpquote:
1) boyfriend has tried to teach them, and not taken proper precautions, girl gets lofted and freaked out. She may want to try again, but really are scared now (so yes fear does have an impact, after a scare)
How do I get around this.? It happened pretty much exactly as written.
Note - I'm learning as well. So I wasn't teaching her. We got some lessons.(4 each) (Had a few more cancelled and still have a couple owing us)
She is good at flying the kite. damn good. I sucked in my lessons - but it did give me waay more practise at re-launching (as I'd crash it every 5 min).
So a month or so later - we're at the beach. Figure we'd try and practise a self-launch we'd seen a guy do the week before. (Had done it once in a lesson). The kite caught a gust - flipped and pulled her away from me. (Yes she was hooked in. That's what we were taught. Can someone clarify if that was right or wrong?) Dragged her most of the way accross the beach. Ended about 50cm from a concrete pole. in a heap and shivering. We tried to walk her out (away from the carpark) to lower the kite. (didn't quite get there and the kite slammed down into the carpark.)
She's determined to never ever ever touch a kite again. And doesn't really want me going out either.
We haven't been kiting since (2 months). (it's been a hectic couple of months - getting married, moving house, new jobs, etc) And it looks like it's about the end of the season now (melb).
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Any body have any suggestions on what a good next step would be?